Can we call a man a more ferocious creature than a tiger? Notreally it is harder to respond to kindness and understanding?
One woman came to the old sage for advice.
She toldhall him the following: “Talking about my husband, the sage, ” she said. — He is very dear to me. In the last three years he was in the war. But after his return he almost doesn’t talk to anyone. When I spoke with him, he appeared not to hear me. But if speaks, he speaks roughly. If I cook his favorite meals, he repels them and angrily leaves, indeTu. Sometimes, when he would have to work in the rice fields, I see him sitting on top of a hill and looking into the distance, the sea. I need a potion, — said the young woman, — to become a loving and affectionate person I used to be”. Continue reading
Since then many years have passed. And on that clear, Sunny day, when I walked through the streets of the city and enjoyed the summer Islands, enjoying the warm autumn sun and smiling passers-by, I met Her. Tall, slender, shimmering in the sun MOP of long hair, she slowly walked towards me. Her every movement was filled with femininity, grace and some relaxed love in life. I would have passed if I hadn’t heard:
– You’re not the first one who doesn’t recognize me, so I’m not even offended. – She laughed merrily. I turned and after a moment the confusion in my mind began to emerge a familiar way.
– LEL? You? Can’t be!
The pause is too long, and I didn’t know what to say. Unlike the previous LEL, it took the initiative in their hands and not do, where we go and what we will do. It was obvious that she was glad of the meeting, but gives me time to recover. Continue reading
When a child cannot get what you want, it starts to act up, take offense and throw tantrums — thus, it forces parents to obey his feeble will. A small miracle, walking under the table, can make adults dance to their tune.
It is not surprising that the technique of such manipulation is delayed and strengthened in his mind, as the most effective way to succeed.
But as the child Matures. Desires change, changing relationships with the world and other people, but the technique of manipulating only honed. Even where one would simply ask, in the course now comes the heavy artillery — the pressure on the pity, conscience, sense of duty, pride — just to avoid refusal and long explanations.
Manipulation is a way to get what you want from other people without having to bear for it any responsibility. Continue reading
To build good family relationships must meet three conditions. The first condition – the husband and wife must be bound to each other tender feelings. Second, they should equally invest in creating relationships. The third condition was fine. Without the adoption and implementation by both spouses of certain rules, regulations and prohibitions to build a stable relationship impossible.
Most problems in couples arise due to the violation of the second condition, when one of the spouses seems that he puts into the relationship much more than the other. In the first months after the wedding, you are full of plans, feelings and sensations that this happiness will be endless. But after a few months you can start annoying habits of a spouse, his manner to leave your stuff and sing in the bathroom. Continue reading
Another rampant and destructive misconception is that a man and a woman in love family relationships have to do everything together, sleep in the same bed, not have secrets and, in General, belong to each other completely.
Yes, at the initial stage of family relations and not want for a minute to break away from each other.
Friends, work, Hobbies — everything is put aside just to be together. It may be romantic, but to squeeze each other dry and immediately is dangerous. To reduce the whole meaning of life for family relations, even the most beautiful person, then to lose touch with reality.
As wonderful as these family relationships, sooner or later, they’ll tire of both. You can’t live with each other, otherwise, life will soon become black and white. But most couples do not understand and, conversely, strive to merge their lives into one. Continue reading
To preserve the freshness of family relations, we must abandon the pursuit of victory, certainty and stability. You need to overcome your fear and allow family relationships to teeter on the brink of fame and obscurity. Play as animals — growl, bite, rolling on the ground, but if the enemy is defeated on the scapula, it must be time to let go — because otherwise the game will end.
Through the fears and the usual representation it is difficult to cross, but the only way you can build a really light, honest and resilient family relationships.
To understand is to try it for yourself. Continue reading
Here comes business, successful girl. Short hair, business suit, more similar to the male, a portfolio of documents. It goes, firmly enunciating step. Look tense and staring off into the distance. She clearly does not notice the world: clouds that look like strange animals, chirping of birds, young trees that were recently planted in the Park, after which it rapidly goes to his goal.
Yes, she has a goal and no obstacles. She firmly and, if necessary firmly, to give orders to employees: when, who and what to do, where to call, what questions to resolve. Several facilities are in the plan for change. If time drags on, she personally, in spite of the late hour, gets in the car and leaves the building. To clarify the details with the Customer, negotiations with the Contractor, determine the cause of the delay, calls to other cities, the settlement of supply, to whom and how much is not paid, it is who and what is confused, what should be amended in the budget and so on, so on, so forth. Continue reading
There are few such families. which having lived a long life together, realize that they still can’t live without each other . Despite many mistakes, they were happy now and always, and in this case it does not matter how numerous their family.
Almost every person in life there comes a time when he really wants to have their family . No matter the conditions in which he grew up himself. If the child was brought up in a warm cozy parental nest, there is no guarantee that he will want a family faster than the one that was brought up in an orphanage. On the contrary, children from orphanages, or those that were raised by dysfunctional parents, and much rather want to acquire numerous strong family . Continue reading
Currently, almost every woman dreams to build a career and at the same time wants to be the perfect hostess and wife. But often, chasing two hares, catch neither one fails. One of the areas in any case will suffer. To achieve harmony both at work and in family relations it is very hard.
If for women important both these aspects and it cannot give preference to either one of them, it will have to be patient and good to work on yourself:
1. You need to learn how to organize your time so that on arrival home, still for a household.
But it needs to follow a regime of sleeping and eating habits. Specifically, it is desirable to determine in what time will Wake-up and bedtime so that your body gets used. Then difficulties with early rise will not occur. The same applies to nutrition. Adhering to in the body has enough energy and strength. Continue reading
How strange, but it is a question about how to be feminine, often passes me by the administrator from our readers.
Why weird? Strange due to the fact that femininity is our essence, our nature, our natural need. Perhaps the same natural as the desire in men to be strong and confident, to be successful in the business. By the way, why success is so important for a strong half of mankind, you can learn from the article by my colleague Rashid Terranova in the article “What is most important to men in life?” on our website “Sun hands.”
Why so often many girls and women send a question about how to be feminine? At first it surprised me. When such questions began to come more and more, I began to think about why we women are looking for the answer to the question, which is a priori inherent in us by nature? Why in fact so few truly feminine and gentle women, and so many active, enthusiastic and confident on the male of the fairer sex? Continue reading