Can we call a man a more ferocious creature than a tiger? Notreally it is harder to respond to kindness and understanding?
One woman came to the old sage for advice.
She toldhall him the following: “Talking about my husband, the sage, ” she said. — He is very dear to me. In the last three years he was in the war. But after his return he almost doesn’t talk to anyone. When I spoke with him, he appeared not to hear me. But if speaks, he speaks roughly. If I cook his favorite meals, he repels them and angrily leaves, indeTu. Sometimes, when he would have to work in the rice fields, I see him sitting on top of a hill and looking into the distance, the sea. I need a potion, — said the young woman, — to become a loving and affectionate person I used to be”. Continue reading
When a child cannot get what you want, it starts to act up, take offense and throw tantrums — thus, it forces parents to obey his feeble will. A small miracle, walking under the table, can make adults dance to their tune.
It is not surprising that the technique of such manipulation is delayed and strengthened in his mind, as the most effective way to succeed.
But as the child Matures. Desires change, changing relationships with the world and other people, but the technique of manipulating only honed. Even where one would simply ask, in the course now comes the heavy artillery — the pressure on the pity, conscience, sense of duty, pride — just to avoid refusal and long explanations.
Manipulation is a way to get what you want from other people without having to bear for it any responsibility. Continue reading
To build good family relationships must meet three conditions. The first condition – the husband and wife must be bound to each other tender feelings. Second, they should equally invest in creating relationships. The third condition was fine. Without the adoption and implementation by both spouses of certain rules, regulations and prohibitions to build a stable relationship impossible.
Most problems in couples arise due to the violation of the second condition, when one of the spouses seems that he puts into the relationship much more than the other. In the first months after the wedding, you are full of plans, feelings and sensations that this happiness will be endless. But after a few months you can start annoying habits of a spouse, his manner to leave your stuff and sing in the bathroom. Continue reading
To preserve the freshness of family relations, we must abandon the pursuit of victory, certainty and stability. You need to overcome your fear and allow family relationships to teeter on the brink of fame and obscurity. Play as animals — growl, bite, rolling on the ground, but if the enemy is defeated on the scapula, it must be time to let go — because otherwise the game will end.
Through the fears and the usual representation it is difficult to cross, but the only way you can build a really light, honest and resilient family relationships.
To understand is to try it for yourself. Continue reading
Currently, almost every woman dreams to build a career and at the same time wants to be the perfect hostess and wife. But often, chasing two hares, catch neither one fails. One of the areas in any case will suffer. To achieve harmony both at work and in family relations it is very hard.
If for women important both these aspects and it cannot give preference to either one of them, it will have to be patient and good to work on yourself:
1. You need to learn how to organize your time so that on arrival home, still for a household.
But it needs to follow a regime of sleeping and eating habits. Specifically, it is desirable to determine in what time will Wake-up and bedtime so that your body gets used. Then difficulties with early rise will not occur. The same applies to nutrition. Adhering to in the body has enough energy and strength. Continue reading
The same applies to monetary issues. Many couples put all the money into a common pot and then together decide what to spend them on.
But, like the absence of a personal residence, no personal money, and deprives people of a sense of freedom and independence.
Therefore, everyone should have your wallet and the opportunity to spend a certain amount without making any representation about where, when and what.
Often considered normal that a woman generally does not earn money, or earns enough to provide your own life. It would seem, nothing terrible, if a man is willing to take care of her. But on a psychological level, this situation causes a lot of problems. Continue reading
It is very important in family life, despite the second shift at the stove after work and many worries about the well-being of all members of the family, not to bring their relationship to the point that any strange man will seem much more interesting and more attractive than her own husband.
How to diversify family relationships, to the feeling of intimacy never left you, and meeting and talking with each other invariably brings you to a pleasant trembling and awe?
The simplest solution in this case might be to look at the pile of brochures and women’s magazines on “How to diversify the family sexual relations”, and then, armed with exotic knowledge and examining their ability to stand on your head or on the bridge simultaneously with twine, to indulge in all serious. But for such bold experiments still need soil in the form of a sincere, close relationship, full of trust and sincerity. It is in this case may be it does not matter where the right arm or left leg. And we’re this is their goal, isn’t it? Continue reading
Every family sooner or later there comes a time when a family on the horizon appear the clouds and the relationship starts to deteriorate for no particular reason. The reason for this may be mistrust, financial problems, home troubles and more.
How to save the relationship with her husband
To destroy the already fragile relationship easily, but to save them and to return back on track is much harder. You need to determine the causes of the disorder and calmly figure out how to save the relationship, which is “bursting at the seams”.
Do not resort to exceptional measures as long as possible, remember that talk about divorce you need to start only in a pinch. When the relationship is very shaky, need to do everything possible to rectify the situation. If You really love your husband, and he answers You back, You certainly will succeed. Continue reading
Rules that will help to maintain and strengthen family relationships
Building family relationships is a complex process. Very well, when a man and a woman understand what happened between them, and what internal processes are behind this.
But we can’t all be psychologists…
So, talk to position, which is understandable to all — to imagine that we just want to preserve the freshness and joy of our family relations, and leave out all the smart arguments about psychological health, personal development and the meaning of life.
Self-promotion: recommendations helped to maintain family relationships many of my clients.
Here are all the most important things you need to know about family relationships. Continue reading
When a woman behaves like a woman, a man is forced to behave like a man.
Add after this and nothing special. Every woman wants to be weak — in the sense, to do nothing, never accept responsibility, but to be able to fulfill all their desires.
But for a healthy strong family relationships need the power. This force need only be directed at the leadership of her man, not on manipulation and butting, and to be a woman.
A womans strength is her weakness — so they say, and it’s close to the truth… if it is correct to understand these words.
If a woman wants to keep their family relations with a man, she should be able to retreat into the background to take the position of “weak”. Continue reading