family relationships

crossed her face familiarSince then many years have passed. And on that clear, Sunny day, when I walked through the streets of the city and enjoyed the summer Islands, enjoying the warm autumn sun and smiling passers-by, I met Her. Tall, slender, shimmering in the sun MOP of long hair, she slowly walked towards me. Her every movement was filled with femininity, grace and some relaxed love in life. I would have passed if I hadn’t heard:

– You’re not the first one who doesn’t recognize me, so I’m not even offended. – She laughed merrily. I turned and after a moment the confusion in my mind began to emerge a familiar way.

– LEL? You? Can’t be!

The pause is too long, and I didn’t know what to say. Unlike the previous LEL, it took the initiative in their hands and not do, where we go and what we will do. It was obvious that she was glad of the meeting, but gives me time to recover. Continue reading

Stop trying to manipulate family relationsWhen a child cannot get what you want, it starts to act up, take offense and throw tantrums — thus, it forces parents to obey his feeble will. A small miracle, walking under the table, can make adults dance to their tune.

It is not surprising that the technique of such manipulation is delayed and strengthened in his mind, as the most effective way to succeed.

But as the child Matures. Desires change, changing relationships with the world and other people, but the technique of manipulating only honed. Even where one would simply ask, in the course now comes the heavy artillery — the pressure on the pity, conscience, sense of duty, pride — just to avoid refusal and long explanations.

Manipulation is a way to get what you want from other people without having to bear for it any responsibility. Continue reading

Freedom begets affectionTo preserve the freshness of family relations, we must abandon the pursuit of victory, certainty and stability. You need to overcome your fear and allow family relationships to teeter on the brink of fame and obscurity. Play as animals — growl, bite, rolling on the ground, but if the enemy is defeated on the scapula, it must be time to let go — because otherwise the game will end.

Through the fears and the usual representation it is difficult to cross, but the only way you can build a really light, honest and resilient family relationships.

To understand is to try it for yourself. Continue reading

Many years ago.Here comes business, successful girl. Short hair, business suit, more similar to the male, a portfolio of documents. It goes, firmly enunciating step. Look tense and staring off into the distance. She clearly does not notice the world: clouds that look like strange animals, chirping of birds, young trees that were recently planted in the Park, after which it rapidly goes to his goal.

Yes, she has a goal and no obstacles. She firmly and, if necessary firmly, to give orders to employees: when, who and what to do, where to call, what questions to resolve. Several facilities are in the plan for change. If time drags on, she personally, in spite of the late hour, gets in the car and leaves the building. To clarify the details with the Customer, negotiations with the Contractor, determine the cause of the delay, calls to other cities, the settlement of supply, to whom and how much is not paid, it is who and what is confused, what should be amended in the budget and so on, so on, so forth. Continue reading

How to build family relationshipsThere are few such families. which having lived a long life together, realize that they still can’t live without each other . Despite many mistakes, they were happy now and always, and in this case it does not matter how numerous their family.

Almost every person in life there comes a time when he really wants to have their family . No matter the conditions in which he grew up himself. If the child was brought up in a warm cozy parental nest, there is no guarantee that he will want a family faster than the one that was brought up in an orphanage. On the contrary, children from orphanages, or those that were raised by dysfunctional parents, and much rather want to acquire numerous strong family . Continue reading

How to become feminineHow strange, but it is a question about how to be feminine, often passes me by the administrator from our readers.

Why weird? Strange due to the fact that femininity is our essence, our nature, our natural need. Perhaps the same natural as the desire in men to be strong and confident, to be successful in the business. By the way, why success is so important for a strong half of mankind, you can learn from the article by my colleague Rashid Terranova in the article “What is most important to men in life?” on our website “Sun hands.”

Why so often many girls and women send a question about how to be feminine? At first it surprised me. When such questions began to come more and more, I began to think about why we women are looking for the answer to the question, which is a priori inherent in us by nature? Why in fact so few truly feminine and gentle women, and so many active, enthusiastic and confident on the male of the fairer sex? Continue reading

situation causes a lot of problemsThe same applies to monetary issues. Many couples put all the money into a common pot and then together decide what to spend them on.

But, like the absence of a personal residence, no personal money, and deprives people of a sense of freedom and independence.

Therefore, everyone should have your wallet and the opportunity to spend a certain amount without making any representation about where, when and what.

Often considered normal that a woman generally does not earn money, or earns enough to provide your own life. It would seem, nothing terrible, if a man is willing to take care of her. But on a psychological level, this situation causes a lot of problems. Continue reading

As the birth of a child affects family relationshipsThe birth of a child inevitably predicts significant changes in family relationships. But what will become of these relationships, will they be able to unite the family or, conversely, will crack, depends on you.

Worldly wisdom says, “Warned – forearmed”, on this basis, we decided to describe the main “stumbling blocks” on the way to family well-being faced by spouses when a new family member. Relationships begin to change in the period, when a woman finds out that will become a mother. In addition to joy and happiness, she possessed the anxiety and fear of the unknown. Partner support is needed now more than ever. But many men are not aware that their beloved had changed, become more vulnerable. At the same time, the woman does not understand that parental instinct that awoke her, some time will be unknown to her partner. Continue reading

It's the same with family relationships.Although there will be the closest analogy to the unstable chemical reaction. If you allow agents to interact too intensively, there is an explosion. If the interaction is greatly to restrain, the reaction is simply quenched. And only when the right environmental temperature and the concentrations of lead obtained gold.

Following written recommendations is the psychological tools to control the chemical reaction of family relations. Gold, in the end, you are likely to fail, but to overcome the most gross and pernicious errors, we hope, they will help.

Keep in family relations distance

This is the most important rule, from which are derived all the rest of the family.

When a man and a woman enter into new family relationships they have for each other is uncharted territory. They rediscovered each other and enjoy every step taken towards. Continue reading

How to build and maintain healthy family relationships to old ageRules that will help to maintain and strengthen family relationships

Building family relationships is a complex process. Very well, when a man and a woman understand what happened between them, and what internal processes are behind this.

But we can’t all be psychologists…

So, talk to position, which is understandable to all — to imagine that we just want to preserve the freshness and joy of our family relations, and leave out all the smart arguments about psychological health, personal development and the meaning of life.

Self-promotion: recommendations helped to maintain family relationships many of my clients.

Here are all the most important things you need to know about family relationships. Continue reading