Can we call a man a more ferocious creature than a tiger? Notreally it is harder to respond to kindness and understanding?
One woman came to the old sage for advice.
She toldhall him the following: “Talking about my husband, the sage, ” she said. — He is very dear to me. In the last three years he was in the war. But after his return he almost doesn’t talk to anyone. When I spoke with him, he appeared not to hear me. But if speaks, he speaks roughly. If I cook his favorite meals, he repels them and angrily leaves, indeTu. Sometimes, when he would have to work in the rice fields, I see him sitting on top of a hill and looking into the distance, the sea. I need a potion, — said the young woman, — to become a loving and affectionate person I used to be”. Continue reading
To preserve the freshness of family relations, we must abandon the pursuit of victory, certainty and stability. You need to overcome your fear and allow family relationships to teeter on the brink of fame and obscurity. Play as animals — growl, bite, rolling on the ground, but if the enemy is defeated on the scapula, it must be time to let go — because otherwise the game will end.
Through the fears and the usual representation it is difficult to cross, but the only way you can build a really light, honest and resilient family relationships.
To understand is to try it for yourself. Continue reading
There are few such families. which having lived a long life together, realize that they still can’t live without each other . Despite many mistakes, they were happy now and always, and in this case it does not matter how numerous their family.
Almost every person in life there comes a time when he really wants to have their family . No matter the conditions in which he grew up himself. If the child was brought up in a warm cozy parental nest, there is no guarantee that he will want a family faster than the one that was brought up in an orphanage. On the contrary, children from orphanages, or those that were raised by dysfunctional parents, and much rather want to acquire numerous strong family . Continue reading
Currently, almost every woman dreams to build a career and at the same time wants to be the perfect hostess and wife. But often, chasing two hares, catch neither one fails. One of the areas in any case will suffer. To achieve harmony both at work and in family relations it is very hard.
If for women important both these aspects and it cannot give preference to either one of them, it will have to be patient and good to work on yourself:
1. You need to learn how to organize your time so that on arrival home, still for a household.
But it needs to follow a regime of sleeping and eating habits. Specifically, it is desirable to determine in what time will Wake-up and bedtime so that your body gets used. Then difficulties with early rise will not occur. The same applies to nutrition. Adhering to in the body has enough energy and strength. Continue reading
One day, every woman have to admit that her relationship with a man is not all right. She begins to notice that they are both estranged from each other. everyone does his own thing — there is still the need to constantly see, hear, feel the closeness. Intelligent woman not willing to lose his position, can not disturb it.
Most importantly, be confident in the fact that all this is the usual story for a long relationship, not to panic and make a clear plan of action:
1. Be sure to prioritize between work and family. To understand that family and family always comes first.
2. To arrange «down memory lane» — to revise the old photos (especially romantic, wedding), with the participation of the husband, of course. Continue reading
It is very important in family life, despite the second shift at the stove after work and many worries about the well-being of all members of the family, not to bring their relationship to the point that any strange man will seem much more interesting and more attractive than her own husband.
How to diversify family relationships, to the feeling of intimacy never left you, and meeting and talking with each other invariably brings you to a pleasant trembling and awe?
The simplest solution in this case might be to look at the pile of brochures and women’s magazines on “How to diversify the family sexual relations”, and then, armed with exotic knowledge and examining their ability to stand on your head or on the bridge simultaneously with twine, to indulge in all serious. But for such bold experiments still need soil in the form of a sincere, close relationship, full of trust and sincerity. It is in this case may be it does not matter where the right arm or left leg. And we’re this is their goal, isn’t it? Continue reading
The birth of a child inevitably predicts significant changes in family relationships. But what will become of these relationships, will they be able to unite the family or, conversely, will crack, depends on you.
Worldly wisdom says, “Warned – forearmed”, on this basis, we decided to describe the main “stumbling blocks” on the way to family well-being faced by spouses when a new family member. Relationships begin to change in the period, when a woman finds out that will become a mother. In addition to joy and happiness, she possessed the anxiety and fear of the unknown. Partner support is needed now more than ever. But many men are not aware that their beloved had changed, become more vulnerable. At the same time, the woman does not understand that parental instinct that awoke her, some time will be unknown to her partner. Continue reading
Although there will be the closest analogy to the unstable chemical reaction. If you allow agents to interact too intensively, there is an explosion. If the interaction is greatly to restrain, the reaction is simply quenched. And only when the right environmental temperature and the concentrations of lead obtained gold.
Following written recommendations is the psychological tools to control the chemical reaction of family relations. Gold, in the end, you are likely to fail, but to overcome the most gross and pernicious errors, we hope, they will help.
Keep in family relations distance
This is the most important rule, from which are derived all the rest of the family.
When a man and a woman enter into new family relationships they have for each other is uncharted territory. They rediscovered each other and enjoy every step taken towards. Continue reading
Rules that will help to maintain and strengthen family relationships
Building family relationships is a complex process. Very well, when a man and a woman understand what happened between them, and what internal processes are behind this.
But we can’t all be psychologists…
So, talk to position, which is understandable to all — to imagine that we just want to preserve the freshness and joy of our family relations, and leave out all the smart arguments about psychological health, personal development and the meaning of life.
Self-promotion: recommendations helped to maintain family relationships many of my clients.
Here are all the most important things you need to know about family relationships. Continue reading
When a woman behaves like a woman, a man is forced to behave like a man.
Add after this and nothing special. Every woman wants to be weak — in the sense, to do nothing, never accept responsibility, but to be able to fulfill all their desires.
But for a healthy strong family relationships need the power. This force need only be directed at the leadership of her man, not on manipulation and butting, and to be a woman.
A womans strength is her weakness — so they say, and it’s close to the truth… if it is correct to understand these words.
If a woman wants to keep their family relations with a man, she should be able to retreat into the background to take the position of “weak”. Continue reading