career and housework
Since then many years have passed. And on that clear, Sunny day, when I walked through the streets of the city and enjoyed the summer Islands, enjoying the warm autumn sun and smiling passers-by, I met Her. Tall, slender, shimmering in the sun MOP of long hair, she slowly walked towards me. Her every movement was filled with femininity, grace and some relaxed love in life. I would have passed if I hadn’t heard:
– You’re not the first one who doesn’t recognize me, so I’m not even offended. – She laughed merrily. I turned and after a moment the confusion in my mind began to emerge a familiar way.
– LEL? You? Can’t be!
The pause is too long, and I didn’t know what to say. Unlike the previous LEL, it took the initiative in their hands and not do, where we go and what we will do. It was obvious that she was glad of the meeting, but gives me time to recover. Continue reading
Here comes business, successful girl. Short hair, business suit, more similar to the male, a portfolio of documents. It goes, firmly enunciating step. Look tense and staring off into the distance. She clearly does not notice the world: clouds that look like strange animals, chirping of birds, young trees that were recently planted in the Park, after which it rapidly goes to his goal.
Yes, she has a goal and no obstacles. She firmly and, if necessary firmly, to give orders to employees: when, who and what to do, where to call, what questions to resolve. Several facilities are in the plan for change. If time drags on, she personally, in spite of the late hour, gets in the car and leaves the building. To clarify the details with the Customer, negotiations with the Contractor, determine the cause of the delay, calls to other cities, the settlement of supply, to whom and how much is not paid, it is who and what is confused, what should be amended in the budget and so on, so on, so forth. Continue reading
Currently, almost every woman dreams to build a career and at the same time wants to be the perfect hostess and wife. But often, chasing two hares, catch neither one fails. One of the areas in any case will suffer. To achieve harmony both at work and in family relations it is very hard.
If for women important both these aspects and it cannot give preference to either one of them, it will have to be patient and good to work on yourself:
1. You need to learn how to organize your time so that on arrival home, still for a household.
But it needs to follow a regime of sleeping and eating habits. Specifically, it is desirable to determine in what time will Wake-up and bedtime so that your body gets used. Then difficulties with early rise will not occur. The same applies to nutrition. Adhering to in the body has enough energy and strength. Continue reading
One day, every woman have to admit that her relationship with a man is not all right. She begins to notice that they are both estranged from each other. everyone does his own thing — there is still the need to constantly see, hear, feel the closeness. Intelligent woman not willing to lose his position, can not disturb it.
Most importantly, be confident in the fact that all this is the usual story for a long relationship, not to panic and make a clear plan of action:
1. Be sure to prioritize between work and family. To understand that family and family always comes first.
2. To arrange «down memory lane» — to revise the old photos (especially romantic, wedding), with the participation of the husband, of course. Continue reading
Rules that will help to maintain and strengthen family relationships
Building family relationships is a complex process. Very well, when a man and a woman understand what happened between them, and what internal processes are behind this.
But we can’t all be psychologists…
So, talk to position, which is understandable to all — to imagine that we just want to preserve the freshness and joy of our family relations, and leave out all the smart arguments about psychological health, personal development and the meaning of life.
Self-promotion: recommendations helped to maintain family relationships many of my clients.
Here are all the most important things you need to know about family relationships. Continue reading
When a woman behaves like a woman, a man is forced to behave like a man.
Add after this and nothing special. Every woman wants to be weak — in the sense, to do nothing, never accept responsibility, but to be able to fulfill all their desires.
But for a healthy strong family relationships need the power. This force need only be directed at the leadership of her man, not on manipulation and butting, and to be a woman.
A womans strength is her weakness — so they say, and it’s close to the truth… if it is correct to understand these words.
If a woman wants to keep their family relations with a man, she should be able to retreat into the background to take the position of “weak”. Continue reading