Another rampant and destructive misconception is that a man and a woman in love family relationships have to do everything together, sleep in the same bed, not have secrets and, in General, belong to each other completely.
Yes, at the initial stage of family relations and not want for a minute to break away from each other.
Friends, work, Hobbies — everything is put aside just to be together. It may be romantic, but to squeeze each other dry and immediately is dangerous. To reduce the whole meaning of life for family relations, even the most beautiful person, then to lose touch with reality.
As wonderful as these family relationships, sooner or later, they’ll tire of both. You can’t live with each other, otherwise, life will soon become black and white. But most couples do not understand and, conversely, strive to merge their lives into one. Continue reading
To preserve the freshness of family relations, we must abandon the pursuit of victory, certainty and stability. You need to overcome your fear and allow family relationships to teeter on the brink of fame and obscurity. Play as animals — growl, bite, rolling on the ground, but if the enemy is defeated on the scapula, it must be time to let go — because otherwise the game will end.
Through the fears and the usual representation it is difficult to cross, but the only way you can build a really light, honest and resilient family relationships.
To understand is to try it for yourself. Continue reading
Here comes business, successful girl. Short hair, business suit, more similar to the male, a portfolio of documents. It goes, firmly enunciating step. Look tense and staring off into the distance. She clearly does not notice the world: clouds that look like strange animals, chirping of birds, young trees that were recently planted in the Park, after which it rapidly goes to his goal.
Yes, she has a goal and no obstacles. She firmly and, if necessary firmly, to give orders to employees: when, who and what to do, where to call, what questions to resolve. Several facilities are in the plan for change. If time drags on, she personally, in spite of the late hour, gets in the car and leaves the building. To clarify the details with the Customer, negotiations with the Contractor, determine the cause of the delay, calls to other cities, the settlement of supply, to whom and how much is not paid, it is who and what is confused, what should be amended in the budget and so on, so on, so forth. Continue reading
How strange, but it is a question about how to be feminine, often passes me by the administrator from our readers.
Why weird? Strange due to the fact that femininity is our essence, our nature, our natural need. Perhaps the same natural as the desire in men to be strong and confident, to be successful in the business. By the way, why success is so important for a strong half of mankind, you can learn from the article by my colleague Rashid Terranova in the article “What is most important to men in life?” on our website “Sun hands.”
Why so often many girls and women send a question about how to be feminine? At first it surprised me. When such questions began to come more and more, I began to think about why we women are looking for the answer to the question, which is a priori inherent in us by nature? Why in fact so few truly feminine and gentle women, and so many active, enthusiastic and confident on the male of the fairer sex? Continue reading
The same applies to monetary issues. Many couples put all the money into a common pot and then together decide what to spend them on.
But, like the absence of a personal residence, no personal money, and deprives people of a sense of freedom and independence.
Therefore, everyone should have your wallet and the opportunity to spend a certain amount without making any representation about where, when and what.
Often considered normal that a woman generally does not earn money, or earns enough to provide your own life. It would seem, nothing terrible, if a man is willing to take care of her. But on a psychological level, this situation causes a lot of problems. Continue reading
Every family sooner or later there comes a time when a family on the horizon appear the clouds and the relationship starts to deteriorate for no particular reason. The reason for this may be mistrust, financial problems, home troubles and more.
How to save the relationship with her husband
To destroy the already fragile relationship easily, but to save them and to return back on track is much harder. You need to determine the causes of the disorder and calmly figure out how to save the relationship, which is “bursting at the seams”.
Do not resort to exceptional measures as long as possible, remember that talk about divorce you need to start only in a pinch. When the relationship is very shaky, need to do everything possible to rectify the situation. If You really love your husband, and he answers You back, You certainly will succeed. Continue reading
Although there will be the closest analogy to the unstable chemical reaction. If you allow agents to interact too intensively, there is an explosion. If the interaction is greatly to restrain, the reaction is simply quenched. And only when the right environmental temperature and the concentrations of lead obtained gold.
Following written recommendations is the psychological tools to control the chemical reaction of family relations. Gold, in the end, you are likely to fail, but to overcome the most gross and pernicious errors, we hope, they will help.
Keep in family relations distance
This is the most important rule, from which are derived all the rest of the family.
When a man and a woman enter into new family relationships they have for each other is uncharted territory. They rediscovered each other and enjoy every step taken towards. Continue reading
When a woman behaves like a woman, a man is forced to behave like a man.
Add after this and nothing special. Every woman wants to be weak — in the sense, to do nothing, never accept responsibility, but to be able to fulfill all their desires.
But for a healthy strong family relationships need the power. This force need only be directed at the leadership of her man, not on manipulation and butting, and to be a woman.
A womans strength is her weakness — so they say, and it’s close to the truth… if it is correct to understand these words.
If a woman wants to keep their family relations with a man, she should be able to retreat into the background to take the position of “weak”. Continue reading