good family relationships
When a child cannot get what you want, it starts to act up, take offense and throw tantrums — thus, it forces parents to obey his feeble will. A small miracle, walking under the table, can make adults dance to their tune.
It is not surprising that the technique of such manipulation is delayed and strengthened in his mind, as the most effective way to succeed.
But as the child Matures. Desires change, changing relationships with the world and other people, but the technique of manipulating only honed. Even where one would simply ask, in the course now comes the heavy artillery — the pressure on the pity, conscience, sense of duty, pride — just to avoid refusal and long explanations.
Manipulation is a way to get what you want from other people without having to bear for it any responsibility. Continue reading
Every family sooner or later there comes a time when a family on the horizon appear the clouds and the relationship starts to deteriorate for no particular reason. The reason for this may be mistrust, financial problems, home troubles and more.
How to save the relationship with her husband
To destroy the already fragile relationship easily, but to save them and to return back on track is much harder. You need to determine the causes of the disorder and calmly figure out how to save the relationship, which is “bursting at the seams”.
Do not resort to exceptional measures as long as possible, remember that talk about divorce you need to start only in a pinch. When the relationship is very shaky, need to do everything possible to rectify the situation. If You really love your husband, and he answers You back, You certainly will succeed. Continue reading
Although there will be the closest analogy to the unstable chemical reaction. If you allow agents to interact too intensively, there is an explosion. If the interaction is greatly to restrain, the reaction is simply quenched. And only when the right environmental temperature and the concentrations of lead obtained gold.
Following written recommendations is the psychological tools to control the chemical reaction of family relations. Gold, in the end, you are likely to fail, but to overcome the most gross and pernicious errors, we hope, they will help.
Keep in family relations distance
This is the most important rule, from which are derived all the rest of the family.
When a man and a woman enter into new family relationships they have for each other is uncharted territory. They rediscovered each other and enjoy every step taken towards. Continue reading
When a woman behaves like a woman, a man is forced to behave like a man.
Add after this and nothing special. Every woman wants to be weak — in the sense, to do nothing, never accept responsibility, but to be able to fulfill all their desires.
But for a healthy strong family relationships need the power. This force need only be directed at the leadership of her man, not on manipulation and butting, and to be a woman.
A womans strength is her weakness — so they say, and it’s close to the truth… if it is correct to understand these words.
If a woman wants to keep their family relations with a man, she should be able to retreat into the background to take the position of “weak”. Continue reading