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Stop trying to manipulate family relationsWhen a child cannot get what you want, it starts to act up, take offense and throw tantrums — thus, it forces parents to obey his feeble will. A small miracle, walking under the table, can make adults dance to their tune.

It is not surprising that the technique of such manipulation is delayed and strengthened in his mind, as the most effective way to succeed.

But as the child Matures. Desires change, changing relationships with the world and other people, but the technique of manipulating only honed. Even where one would simply ask, in the course now comes the heavy artillery — the pressure on the pity, conscience, sense of duty, pride — just to avoid refusal and long explanations.

Manipulation is a way to get what you want from other people without having to bear for it any responsibility. Continue reading

Freedom begets affectionTo preserve the freshness of family relations, we must abandon the pursuit of victory, certainty and stability. You need to overcome your fear and allow family relationships to teeter on the brink of fame and obscurity. Play as animals — growl, bite, rolling on the ground, but if the enemy is defeated on the scapula, it must be time to let go — because otherwise the game will end.

Through the fears and the usual representation it is difficult to cross, but the only way you can build a really light, honest and resilient family relationships.

To understand is to try it for yourself. Continue reading

Many years ago.Here comes business, successful girl. Short hair, business suit, more similar to the male, a portfolio of documents. It goes, firmly enunciating step. Look tense and staring off into the distance. She clearly does not notice the world: clouds that look like strange animals, chirping of birds, young trees that were recently planted in the Park, after which it rapidly goes to his goal.

Yes, she has a goal and no obstacles. She firmly and, if necessary firmly, to give orders to employees: when, who and what to do, where to call, what questions to resolve. Several facilities are in the plan for change. If time drags on, she personally, in spite of the late hour, gets in the car and leaves the building. To clarify the details with the Customer, negotiations with the Contractor, determine the cause of the delay, calls to other cities, the settlement of supply, to whom and how much is not paid, it is who and what is confused, what should be amended in the budget and so on, so on, so forth. Continue reading

How to become feminineHow strange, but it is a question about how to be feminine, often passes me by the administrator from our readers.

Why weird? Strange due to the fact that femininity is our essence, our nature, our natural need. Perhaps the same natural as the desire in men to be strong and confident, to be successful in the business. By the way, why success is so important for a strong half of mankind, you can learn from the article by my colleague Rashid Terranova in the article “What is most important to men in life?” on our website “Sun hands.”

Why so often many girls and women send a question about how to be feminine? At first it surprised me. When such questions began to come more and more, I began to think about why we women are looking for the answer to the question, which is a priori inherent in us by nature? Why in fact so few truly feminine and gentle women, and so many active, enthusiastic and confident on the male of the fairer sex? Continue reading

How to refresh family relationships.One day, every woman have to admit that her relationship with a man is not all right. She begins to notice that they are both estranged from each other. everyone does his own thing — there is still the need to constantly see, hear, feel the closeness. Intelligent woman not willing to lose his position, can not disturb it.

Most importantly, be confident in the fact that all this is the usual story for a long relationship, not to panic and make a clear plan of action:

1. Be sure to prioritize between work and family. To understand that family and family always comes first.

2. To arrange «down memory lane» — to revise the old photos (especially romantic, wedding), with the participation of the husband, of course. Continue reading

How to diversify family relationships?It is very important in family life, despite the second shift at the stove after work and many worries about the well-being of all members of the family, not to bring their relationship to the point that any strange man will seem much more interesting and more attractive than her own husband.

How to diversify family relationships, to the feeling of intimacy never left you, and meeting and talking with each other invariably brings you to a pleasant trembling and awe?

The simplest solution in this case might be to look at the pile of brochures and women’s magazines on “How to diversify the family sexual relations”, and then, armed with exotic knowledge and examining their ability to stand on your head or on the bridge simultaneously with twine, to indulge in all serious. But for such bold experiments still need soil in the form of a sincere, close relationship, full of trust and sincerity. It is in this case may be it does not matter where the right arm or left leg. And we’re this is their goal, isn’t it? Continue reading

How to save the family relationship?Every family sooner or later there comes a time when a family on the horizon appear the clouds and the relationship starts to deteriorate for no particular reason. The reason for this may be mistrust, financial problems, home troubles and more.

How to save the relationship with her husband

To destroy the already fragile relationship easily, but to save them and to return back on track is much harder. You need to determine the causes of the disorder and calmly figure out how to save the relationship, which is “bursting at the seams”.

Do not resort to exceptional measures as long as possible, remember that talk about divorce you need to start only in a pinch. When the relationship is very shaky, need to do everything possible to rectify the situation. If You really love your husband, and he answers You back, You certainly will succeed. Continue reading