we can negotiate

Stop trying to manipulate family relationsWhen a child cannot get what you want, it starts to act up, take offense and throw tantrums — thus, it forces parents to obey his feeble will. A small miracle, walking under the table, can make adults dance to their tune.

It is not surprising that the technique of such manipulation is delayed and strengthened in his mind, as the most effective way to succeed.

But as the child Matures. Desires change, changing relationships with the world and other people, but the technique of manipulating only honed. Even where one would simply ask, in the course now comes the heavy artillery — the pressure on the pity, conscience, sense of duty, pride — just to avoid refusal and long explanations.

Manipulation is a way to get what you want from other people without having to bear for it any responsibility. Continue reading

The main parting words for the women in family relationsWhen a woman behaves like a woman, a man is forced to behave like a man.

Add after this and nothing special. Every woman wants to be weak — in the sense, to do nothing, never accept responsibility, but to be able to fulfill all their desires.

But for a healthy strong family relationships need the power. This force need only be directed at the leadership of her man, not on manipulation and butting, and to be a woman.

A womans strength is her weakness — so they say, and it’s close to the truth… if it is correct to understand these words.

If a woman wants to keep their family relations with a man, she should be able to retreat into the background to take the position of “weak”. Continue reading